We are in a new town. Our lives have changed quite a bit; Doug is working full time and I am not working every day. I thought it would be nice to have some people over to play cards one evening or to ask a girlfriend to coffee. Then I realized we don’t know anyone here! I knew a few people from my classes and from the fairs and markets. But if you do not know people well enough it is hard to just say, “Hey, you wanna go get some tea?”
So I started two facebook groups. Facebook is my nemesis and saving grace all in one. I get easily trapped in the negativity but it is also the only way to properly build and promote my business and writings. It is also a great way to meet new people. A private Facebook group can be easily made (it can also be made public). I made two of them.
One of them was Doug’s idea. His original name for it was the Black Hat Society but it turns out there are several chapters out east so instead the Purple Door Society came to be. A beautiful woman who was in my herb and shaman classes and supported my little farm encouraged me to put the idea into action. We sat down one day at a coffee shop and ironed out a rough idea of what this women’s group could look like then invited four other girls. Who invited a few others. We had our first meet up at another coffee shop last week. Four free thinking gals, most of them healers, not wanting anyone to need something from them, just wanting to be themselves. We sat and had tea or coffee and realized that most of us hadn’t been out with girls in a long, long time for conversation! Next month the group (a little bigger now) is going to Florence for shopping and lunch.
We wanted to meet couples as well, like minded ones. I created a vegan supper club called the Plant Foodie Supper Club for Southern Colorado. Vegans, vegetarians, pescatarians, and the curious all welcome. The other night we hosted two other couples for a potluck style feast. Homemade pasta and sauce, pesto stuffed mushrooms, a vegan cheese board, French bread, and chocolate mousse. The food and wine great, the conversations amazing, the game filled with laughter, and the evening wonderful with new friends. Next month a young couple that we haven’t met before is hosting the dinner. It’s wonderful to be getting out of our 24 hour a day working habit and getting out there to see who is sharing this beautiful city and planet with us!
I always say that what we learned from our adventures in losing everything was that we were so busy trying to be self sufficient that we ended up becoming completely dependent on others. We were made to be communities, our success, joys, and health depend on it. In a world that values media and overtime, let us make a bit of time for new friends and time with others. Maybe start a facebook group of your own!