We have a very long driveway. In the city it would be the length of one long block. It had one to two feet of snow in any given place so our cars just couldn’t get up the dirt path the last few snowstorms. Our car along with our housemate, David’s, stayed parked along the road until we could get back in. Yesterday we came home late, ready to bundle up the baby and load all of our things on our backs to hike up the driveway. But lo, there was an amazing sight. The driveway had been plowed. I could not believe my eyes. There under the twinkling stars and icy air sat a perfectly plowed block long stretch.
No one knows where we live. And David is very private so it wasn’t anyone any of us knew. Just a random act of kindness. It meant so much yet there is no one to thank. The only way to show gratitude is to pass it on.
I write about ways to spontaneously add joy to others’ lives. I think it is so important that we stay strong in our support for others, even if we do not know them. Perhaps today compliment five people. Say a prayer for a family. Buy the person’s coffee in front of you. Don’t tailgate. Smile and greet folks.
A few days ago we pulled into a parking space at a shopping center. We got out at the same time as the girl next to us. Her hair was lovely. I always liked the pixie cut and lamented that I could never pull it off. It was streaked red and grey in soft curls. I told her that I LOVE her hair! She sighed, then beamed a brilliant smile and said that I have no idea how much that means to her. She is going through chemotherapy and just recently had to cut off all of her beautiful long hair. She said again how much that meant to her and how we just don’t realize how much our words mean.
Use your heart out there today and don’t be afraid to say nice things to people that you meet. The smallest kindness can mean so much. Spread the love and cheer of this time of year!